Here's A Fun Way To Ride With Him - It can be challenging for women and men, like wives and husbands, to ride together because it's common for them to have different fitness levels. Here's a tip to even the playing field and ensure no one is left behind. It's as easy as the slower rider starting first, and the stronger cyclist then playing catch-up. This turns the ride into a fun game where you try to stay head and she tries to catch you. No fair taking shortcuts.